Ok, so here's the thing... I'm bi and my last boyfriend raped me but I'm with this girl now and I'm really happy. So I decide in a moment of utter stupidity to come out to my mom. She flips and I ask her to please not tell my sister. Well, needless to say she immediately turns around and calls my sister, who proceeds (when I see her) to tell me I've strayed from the righteous path and that she feels sorry for me and all this other religious bullshit. I'm just hurt that my family can't respect my decision and that my mom would go behind my back like that. Half the time my mom doesn't even know or care where I am, I'm never home and she doesn't even ask where I'm going anymore. I mean if they ever need me I'm there for them no question, but who's there for me?